I think you know exactly what I am talking about and its been occurring in professional sports as long as I remember....
Example....Pat Mahomes in a playoff game against the Texans goes into a very LATE slide and is involved in contact with 2 defensive players. Head official throws flag (only flag) and personal foul is called. Its a 3rd down play and the Chiefs are awarded a first down. Replay shows that the Texan defenders made head to head contact with each other and not Mahomes's head. The actual contact to Mahomes was minor at best. Troy Aikman (former NFL QB and HOFer) openly voiced his displeasure at the call, watching several replays.
My contention....a rookie or a non-big name QB does not get that call. The shadow of the doubt goes to the stars of the league and the NFL is absolutely invested in protecting its greatest assets. There is preferential treatment, whether intentional or not. Human nature. It has always been this way in professional sports...whether that be the size of strike zones, giving certain bball players an "extra step" or falling for the flop, etc. The NFL is no different.
As far as what you toss off or not means absolutely nothing to me......