False equivalency. You’re speaking in hyperbole here. That was never the accusation being made. No one claimed “their ability does not warrant it.”
The point being made is that it is much easier to have respect for a program that is built from the ground up via feeder systems, while promoting hard work and dedication. Programs that hit reset annually and build via other means (Colorado comes to mind), are becoming way too common for many people’s taste. And please don’t hit me with the piss poor analogy of “coaches can leave so why can’t players?”
”Waiting your turn” in this instance (though I can’t speak for everyone) means the wide eyed kid that busts his ass from elementary on and watches the high school team in hopes of one day being the the next one given an opportunity to play. When you bring in “one and dones” from surrounding programs it’s pretty demoralizing and you are sending a really important message whether you realize it or not.
That kid, let’s assume he is talented, has three choices…transfer, switch positions, continue to be a team first guy and accept a backup role.
No pearl clutching here but let’s just call this what it is.