Just starting with common sense: There are many, many highly qualified officials at the high school level who are as good in terms of officiating ability as those who find their way to D1 or even the NFL. I have worked with many D1 and NFL officials over the years, and I know this to be true. The difference is in the training they receive and the way they discipline themselves to utilize it. But there are many high school officials who could rise to that level, given the opportunity. Some don’t want to. Some can’t, for important reasons like family or employment situations. Some don’t get the opportunity - there is some luck involved.
So, to your point, the fact that you see someone is out there on Friday night, rather than on TV on Saturday or Sunday, tells you exactly ZERO about their officiating proficiency.