My post above wasn't meant to say one stance is better or worse than the other. If your kids are coached up they both work fine.
We communicate our play calls by using signals, and we like to change the play sometimes after the defense lines up. It's easier to do that out of a 2 pt stance, so that's what we use.
I don't think it matters what size the school is, we all have to coach against dudes relative to our level, especially in the later rounds of the play-offs.