Maybe the irresponsible "coach/staff" is who needs to grow up. I wasn't attacking anyone. All I did was point out, to several posters yes, that maybe it's best to get facts before judging. If someone were to attack your kids/program/integrity without gathering all the facts I'd certainly hope you'd defend them as well. Being first, or having a "hot take" doesn't always work out. I'd certainly expect coaches, administrators, etc... to make sure they get it right before publicly calling out another program.