I tend to look at things through a teacher's eyes. I see these kids every day. I've had a lot of training in child psychology, sociology, pedagogy, etc. What some of you guys talk about is for sports outside of school. Of course, things have changed since we, you, they were in school. Teachers have become much more responsible for taking care of kids. You might have a hard time coaching in today's world.
These douchey things that you say have their root somewhere.